tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3844738554429301422.post2084451018180004649..comments2023-05-22T07:36:32.396-04:00Comments on Trowel and Paintbrush: My Awkward Social LifeKathleen Maunderhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17827170549189936589noreply@blogger.comBlogger24125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3844738554429301422.post-28784258915012659222016-02-29T09:16:03.465-05:002016-02-29T09:16:03.465-05:00Thanks, Carol! It's definitely a balancing act...Thanks, Carol! It's definitely a balancing act and, yes, there is that ugly side where art is copied/stolen. Thank goodness there are positives too.Kathleen Maunderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17827170549189936589noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3844738554429301422.post-19177186104800139652016-02-29T09:03:16.314-05:002016-02-29T09:03:16.314-05:00Well stated. I like having an online presence but ...Well stated. I like having an online presence but don't want it to distract me from my life. Of course, the other side of be online with our work is that it is used where it shouldn't . An ongoing process of tracking it down. Carolhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01184370219253409713noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3844738554429301422.post-21226513476096549902014-03-27T08:22:05.761-04:002014-03-27T08:22:05.761-04:00There is a wonderful side for sure. How amazing to...There is a wonderful side for sure. How amazing to be able to connect to people across the world. But what a balancing act! :)Kathleen Maunderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17827170549189936589noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3844738554429301422.post-17787806945119532072014-03-27T08:20:54.268-04:002014-03-27T08:20:54.268-04:00Yes, I think sometimes taking breaks helps us to m...Yes, I think sometimes taking breaks helps us to maintain perspective. It's hard though to back away from it. (Have you seen the poster: 'Ma'am, step away from the computer'? https://www.etsy.com/ca/listing/97613104/maam-step-away-from-the-computer-green) I think you are right that blogging is a bit of an act of bravery so it feels good when we do make a connection with others. :)Kathleen Maunderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17827170549189936589noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3844738554429301422.post-36904620617843569262014-03-25T05:32:55.812-04:002014-03-25T05:32:55.812-04:00Oh, I can relate! Social media offers us so much, ...Oh, I can relate! Social media offers us so much, especially to the introvert side of ourselves. It's easy though for all the posting to take on a life of it's own and take over our time. Balance, for sure! I'll figure it out one of these days, I hope!simply bevhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15184545845389233705noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3844738554429301422.post-67055844143890249952014-03-18T10:05:57.934-04:002014-03-18T10:05:57.934-04:00You seem to have found a way that at least works f...You seem to have found a way that at least works for you (taking breaks from it all) and that is a good start. I think we all are a bit full of self doubt, we are indeed putting ourselves out there so of course it feels good to know people appreciate it. :-)<br /><br />http://tinajoathome.com/tinajohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11107966080559159842noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3844738554429301422.post-90314147024955816632014-03-14T09:14:10.893-04:002014-03-14T09:14:10.893-04:00Thanks, Debbie, so much for your kind comments. I ...Thanks, Debbie, so much for your kind comments. I feel lucky to have such nice people gather here. The balance part is hard. We have to make sure that we're spending more time living our lives than we are telling our stories or worrying about who is reading them. :)Kathleen Maunderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17827170549189936589noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3844738554429301422.post-37840139711957473882014-03-14T09:08:09.857-04:002014-03-14T09:08:09.857-04:00You made me laugh out loud with your 'fascinat...You made me laugh out loud with your 'fascinating' comment. Good for you! :) It sounds like you have a warm, full life. Thanks for your lovely comments and a hug from Meeko! Kathleen Maunderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17827170549189936589noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3844738554429301422.post-66244107695322908912014-03-14T09:05:46.305-04:002014-03-14T09:05:46.305-04:00Thanks, Melody. So funny how my cafeteria referenc...Thanks, Melody. So funny how my cafeteria reference struck a chord with so many people! Social media does provide an opportunity to meet lots of interesting people. That's one of the great parts about it. And I get what you're saying about it providing a safe distance. I'm a Cancer. :)Kathleen Maunderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17827170549189936589noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3844738554429301422.post-81996950227935718242014-03-13T14:14:34.321-04:002014-03-13T14:14:34.321-04:00Dear Kathleen - I always find your art, your blog ...Dear Kathleen - I always find your art, your blog (thoughts) and Meeko superb! Like you it becomes a challenge to find a balance. Since I began blogging much less time to paint and create but having a blog keeps me doing it too. Thank you for sharing. I am so glad I found your blog - it inspires me as well. Debbie Nolanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11168646638438558551noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3844738554429301422.post-82759833417459070322014-03-13T09:25:40.087-04:002014-03-13T09:25:40.087-04:00Goodness, Kathleen! You sound like me!! I too am...Goodness, Kathleen! You sound like me!! I too am extremely sensitive to the words (and facial expressions) of others. I too have so much self-doubt and take everything to heart. I too like people but have no problem being by myself (I find myself fascinating to myself! LOL) and tend to prefer it. As time has gone on, I've learned to be more outgoing with people and do not mind it too much, but always prefer being at home. My idea of a fabulous social life is spending time with my daughters and my grandkids. I love to watch tv, read, study, work on my art...<br /><br />I have found and stayed with your blog because of your personality, because of your fabulous art work, and of course, I too think Meeko is fabulous!Autumn Leaveshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04010044052621228719noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3844738554429301422.post-27054242550610081432014-03-12T22:27:50.106-04:002014-03-12T22:27:50.106-04:00It is so nice when people 'get' each other...It is so nice when people 'get' each other even when they've never met. I feel that with you. I admire your art so much and your ever-thoughtful process. Your head and heart are engaged in everything you do. Thanks for all those nice things you said (gosh!) as well as your support, encouragement and friendship. I hope your move goes well and it doesn't take long to settle into your new home. xoKathleen Maunderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17827170549189936589noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3844738554429301422.post-72140498002061336782014-03-12T21:34:20.268-04:002014-03-12T21:34:20.268-04:00Wow can i relate! You have explained perfectly, ...Wow can i relate! You have explained perfectly, so much of how I feel about myself, life, and mingling with strangers ( i hated the cafeteria scene), I think "careful" is a great description of how I treat interaction with strangers... or people i'm not so sure about. I find the world of blogs, and social media feels safe, as i don't have to actually face anyone in person~ and yet you get meet some really great people! (i mean when i'm not worrying about if they like me too, ha ha ) I find balance is a hard thing to acheive... which is odd since I'm a Libra??? :))))) Great post !!!! Melodyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10229439546427952540noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3844738554429301422.post-49689305027883152772014-03-12T19:53:03.697-04:002014-03-12T19:53:03.697-04:00You are such an important part of my life, Colette...You are such an important part of my life, Colette. Thank you for your friendship, the art and music, the serious conversations and all of that wonderful laughter. I love you THIS much but you know that Meeko loves you more. :)Kathleen Maunderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17827170549189936589noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3844738554429301422.post-82589606700582790122014-03-12T19:49:48.726-04:002014-03-12T19:49:48.726-04:00Thank you, Julie. It so nice that we 'met'...Thank you, Julie. It so nice that we 'met' here, don't you think? I appreciate your ongoing support and encouragement. I think we do need to constantly adjust and do what feels best for us. And just so you know, I think of you as an artistic beanstalk rather than a bean. :)Kathleen Maunderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17827170549189936589noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3844738554429301422.post-19522303232488616122014-03-12T19:39:59.965-04:002014-03-12T19:39:59.965-04:00Hi Kate! I think you're right that artists cra...Hi Kate! I think you're right that artists crave and enjoy time on their own because it is what we need in order to create. My studio is definitely one of my happy places. I also like how you equate time alone as being time to 're-charge'!Kathleen Maunderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17827170549189936589noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3844738554429301422.post-7346424416812427312014-03-12T19:34:32.750-04:002014-03-12T19:34:32.750-04:00Haha, I can't believe this post, I could have ...Haha, I can't believe this post, I could have written it, I can so totally relate! I am taking a bit of a break while we are moving this month, and it is somewhat a relief. But honestly, Kathleen I would have never, EVER, guessed you were shy, and feel awkward in any way, you are always generous, kind ,funny, interesting and highly articulate. Thank you for sharing this. xxannamaria potamitihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10940831135518204457noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3844738554429301422.post-71733036980455453552014-03-12T19:21:23.470-04:002014-03-12T19:21:23.470-04:00Thanks for commenting, Anne! Just writing the word...Thanks for commenting, Anne! Just writing the words 'high school cafeteria' can bring me back there. Shudder. You make a great point that the choice is there to take a break from social media when we need to. I guess we need to give ourselves permission to step back now and then. There is a lot of good too. I agree. I think that's what makes balancing so hard sometimes.Kathleen Maunderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17827170549189936589noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3844738554429301422.post-74691996917170142412014-03-12T19:06:18.559-04:002014-03-12T19:06:18.559-04:00Thanks for sharing, Joyce Alice! We do put a lot o...Thanks for sharing, Joyce Alice! We do put a lot of pressure on ourselves when we feel that others might be watching, don't we? I don't get to everyone's blogs that I follow anymore either. I used to regularly, but now I just can't keep up with everything. I feel guilty about that! :) Geninne's blog was one of the very first blogs I followed. A beautiful blog from a beautiful person.Kathleen Maunderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17827170549189936589noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3844738554429301422.post-52327252650450612842014-03-12T18:22:24.466-04:002014-03-12T18:22:24.466-04:00You bring me so much joy , love and laughter...tha...You bring me so much joy , love and laughter...thank-you.colettehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11538928119858488892noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3844738554429301422.post-59923578877198388352014-03-12T16:45:46.787-04:002014-03-12T16:45:46.787-04:00I think you have done such an amazing job here Kat...I think you have done such an amazing job here Kathleen, your blog is always a delight (with or even without Meeko:) and you have got yourself OUT THERE! in the best ways possible creatively. I think I am really an introvert, I do like to observe others, but not always join in, I have been working in a place and it's hard not to compare yourself (there are some seriously talented people I am working with) I feel like an insignificant bean :) Do what feels best at the time I think, go with the flow, and keep posting on here to keep us happy!Julie Clay Illustrationhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08921769068494507312noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3844738554429301422.post-17090554733936238062014-03-12T13:51:54.680-04:002014-03-12T13:51:54.680-04:00I think creative people tend to be happy spending ...I think creative people tend to be happy spending time alone because that's when we create. I love spending time with people, but I find if I've spent a day being sociable, I need the same amount of time, if not more, by myself again to 're-charge'! :)Kate Betty Smithhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12771309203523995739noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3844738554429301422.post-47091244581660080892014-03-12T13:50:24.159-04:002014-03-12T13:50:24.159-04:00What a wonderful post, Kathleen, and something I c...What a wonderful post, Kathleen, and something I can totally relate to in so many ways.<br /><br />Your mentioning the high school cafeteria... ugh, so glad that that part of my life is long past. At least with social media we CAN take a break. Back in high school we had no choice! <br /><br />I think for the most part the positives outweigh the negatives with social media. Though it is sometimes hard to find balance.<br /><br />Thank you for sharing your thoughts!Anne Buterahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04090778223286237879noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3844738554429301422.post-66203131723671960302014-03-12T12:17:34.997-04:002014-03-12T12:17:34.997-04:00This post resonates with me! If I ever start gett...This post resonates with me! If I ever start getting comments on my blog or Facebook I'm sure this might happen to me... Right now hardly anyone reads my blog, so, apart from feeling guilty when I don't post for too long (why?) it gives me a lot of satisfaction. And I don't read every post of every blog I "follow" --- I just dip in now and then. Except I always look at Genine's posts! :)Joyce Alicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00879244554725919024noreply@blogger.com